Getting a kiss on the first date isn’t automatic. If you want that first kiss, you need to make sure that you set up the right conditions. You’ll need a little privacy, but nothing too secluded because you don’t want your date to be uncomfortable.
Public places like restaurants and clubs are a little public for a first kiss no matter how romantic the atmosphere. Your car is probably not great either, especially if it has bucket seats.
If you are really into your date and you want to make your night memorable than any other in your entire dating life, here are the steps on how to get a kiss on your first date.
1. The right moment doesn’t just happen, although you’ll want her to think it did. A nice dinner near the beach or a well lit park calls for a pleasant walk afterwards. Just the two of you on a walk makes for a great opportunity.
Do check the weather forecast if this is your plan. Rain could cancel your walk. If there aren’t any artificial lights in the area, make sure there will be a moon. Stumbling around in total darkness isn’t romantic.
2. Never pressure your date for more than she is willing to give. Watch for her signals. If she is comfortable holding your hand, or having you take her arm she will probably be okay with a kiss.
Always be respectful towards your date. If she’s not comfortable with physical contact, wait for her to make the first move. If your date feels that she is being pressured for physical intimacy, she will shut you down.
Physical contact without sexual pressure will help create the right mood for the kiss. Don’t push your date for more than she is willing to offer.
3. If you aren’t sure she wants to be kissed, ask her. Asking permission to touch a woman shows that you respect her and her feelings. It also allows the woman to feel in control of the situation.
If your evening was a complete disaster, don’t count on getting a kiss unless the lady has a great sense of humor. If your date can see the fun in the event or if she feels sorry for you, you may want to hang onto her. She’s definitely a keeper.
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