Has a girl ever acted rude towards you?

Maybe she hurled verbal venom straight into your tender heart.

Perhaps she spilled her drink on your brand new threads. Instead of uttering a simple “I’m sorry,” she looked at you as if you were a worthless peasant.

Maybe she insulted one of your friends.

Or maybe it’s the buildup of little but disrespectful things she’s done through the course of the evening.

Did you just stand there like dumb dear in headlights?

Did you try even harder to win her over?

Did you just cut your losses and walk away?

Unfortunately, these responses fail to build attraction and get you the respect you deserve.

In a second, I’m going to reveal a secret method for turning a woman’s bratty behavior into uncontrollable attraction.

Before I disclose this secret to you, I want to delve into a little male-female psychology.

According to the dating coach Swinggcat, every male-female interaction has a Meta-Frame – an underlying meaning – that defines one person as the Prize and the other as the suitor trying to win the Prize over.

Women will try to establish a Meta-Frame that defines them as the Prize and you as the suitor trying to win them over.

Is there anything wrong with letting a woman be the Prize?

Good question. I thought you’d never ask.

Once you let them control the meta-frame, they cease feeling any attraction for you.

One amongst a myriad of ways women attempt to control the Meta-Frame is disrespecting a man.

Swinggcat taught me a Jedi mind trick for turning a girl’s rude behavior into attraction.

When a female says or does something disrespectful, demand, “Put out your hand.”

Then gently slap her hand and say, “Bad girl, but if you are good, you get a spanking.”

This puts you back in control of the Meta-Frame, making you the Prize she wants to win over. But more importantly, it turns being spanked by you from a punishment into a reward she has to earn.

Many men believe that attraction is based on looks. That’s only true if you’ve got no game. However, if you possess the skill to attract women, you can write your own destiny with the opposite sex. If you’d like to learn how to attract women, I highly recommend you check out the dating expert Swinggcat.

We’ve all had it happen… and it plain sucks…

Your eyeballs catch sight of a piece of T&A origami.

She’s got a body and face that would earn an A + in Hitler’s book any day.

You may even think about doing things to her that wouldn’t get mom’s seal of approval.

Now for the part that’s grosser than sticking your nose in grandma’s underwear…

You snap back to reality. A bombshell is smack-dab in front of you.

Alas… you don’t know what to do or say. Your adrenaline is chug chug chugging through your veins. Your tongue feels like it’s tied in a knot.

“If I had the ultimate pick up line, I could be doing the nasty with her in no time” you think to yourself.

Maybe.

But consider this…

Give a group of men the same pick up line. Some of them will crash and burn. But others will be making sweet monkey love with a woman in no time.

Another point to consider…

Have you ever watched natural ladies men approach women? You may have noticed that many didn’t use a pick up line.

When they do use one, it’s so bad, they have cheese wiz oozing out of every orifice.

Here’s my point…

It’s totally kosher to use pick up lines.

But it isn’t the words flying out of your trap that spark a sexual interaction between you and a woman.

What’s the secret?

Have a surgeon whittle you a new face and body?

Kidding.

Here’s what to do…

When out on the town, observe the men getting all the female attention.

Ignore “what” they say. It’s useless.

Instead, notice how they talk to and act around gorgeous girls.

About twelve years ago, I did this and discovered certain universal behavioral patterns all ladies men exhibit when approaching and sexually vibing with women.

In this article, I don’t have time to share them all.

But to get you started, here are two…

1) Get out of your head:

Ladies men don’t spend much time fretting over how a woman is going to react to them. Instead, they are extroverted perceivers. In other words, they expend their mental energy observing their environment and the women they’d like to approach.

Here’s an exercise for doing this…

When out on the town, notice all the interesting things about women – the funny expressions they make, the clothes they wear… and so on. This little mental exercise will change your focus of attention from the cancerous thoughts in your head to the outside world.

2) When they see a woman they like, they approach right away:

When most men see an attractive woman, their mind floods with a stampede of worries, such as: “Am I too short or too tall for her?” Will she embarrass me in front of everyone?” “Does she have a boyfriend?” and so on The longer they wait, the more cancerous thoughts burrow their way into their noggin, making even more difficult to approach. Don’t fall victim to this.

When you see a girl you like, take no more than three seconds to approach.

Josh Lubens, a world renowned dating coach, writes under the pseudonym Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over ten years. On his website, you can get pick up lines that actually work.

Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to himself, “Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy.”

Next, he went in for the kill. But a few seconds later, he went belly up as she flattened his ego into a pancake.

He scurried off with the imperative of a gazelle that knows it’s minutes away from becoming a lion’s dinner.

You can probably relate. I know I can. I’ve been there about a billion times. Heck! – I used to be so scared to approach an attractive woman that I’d imagine her steamrolling me, leaving me for road kill in her wake. How cool is that – I’d disqualify myself without even talking to her.

If you never learned how to pick up women, then doing so can seem more challenging than climbing Mt. Everest.

Most of the time, guys pick up girls for their beauty alone – and girls know this, my friend.

Half the time, even if you find them less attractive than the stench of foot and ass combined, they’ll still genuinely believe you’re hitting on them.

But this, my friend, is about to change…

Catching a glimpse of the average man approaching a woman is a grizzly sight to behold. Think of the woman as a skilled fisherman with something irresistible hanging from her pole and the guy as a dumb fish who’s minutes away from being turned into her dinner.

He may still have some fight in him. But, alas, he doesn’t have a chance. (However, if she sees him as a piece of female eye-candy, there may be a glimmer of hope.)

I’m also a fish – but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.

They clamp their chompers down on the bait and my hook slides in – they’re trapped.

Here’s an example. When at a nightclub or bar, my eyes rove around looking for a high foot traffic area – near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio, for example. When a girl struts past me I’ll bump her with my elbow.

And then I’ll bark, “Ow… you hurt me.”

Almost always , the woman will put her paw on my shoulder and say, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”

I’ll usually shoot back with, “You can touch me but…only if you tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”

This emotionally hooks the woman into an interaction with you.

When the average man’s groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.

Put simply, she has them emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her, is a sign she is reeling them in even closer.

But I did the opposite: I set the frame that I’m the Prize and she’s the suitor trying to win me over.

Here’s a universal truth about dating and attraction: In every male-female interaction, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can’t chase each other at the same time.

There are exceptions but, generally speaking, you want the woman chasing you as a Prize she is trying to win over.

Josh Lubens, a world famous dating expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over ten years. At his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.