Men frequently whine about what odd and complicated creatures women are. The whole women are from Venus and men are from Mars spiel justifies their woefully inadequate love lives. Women are hard to put a finger on, according to many single men.
It isn’t all hopeless though. Dating doesn’t have to be so rigorous and strained as some people make it out to be. Women aren’t so mysterious. Just stick to these guidelines and the first date could end up being the start of something very special.
The perfect first date should be exciting. It should be fun and flirtatious and light hearted. Don’t make it out to be more than it really is. Taking that in account, know that grabbing a mocha at Starbuck’s really doesn’t cut it. Going on a date means you fetch your date at her place and take her out for dinner or a show.
The thoughtful gentleman always has something planned in advance. A first date isn’t something you can plan on the fly. You usually need to make reservations or purchase tickets beforehand. It really needn’t be too fancy, but you do need a plan.
If you want your lady to think highly of you, remember that actions speak louder than words. Don’t take your date to your favorite bar–this isn’t guys night out. Don’t go to some ridiculously casual joint either. Show your date you value her. So get creative or be prepared to spend some time on making preparations or simply be prepared to dish out a little bit of cash.
The confirmation call is vital. Remember to call your date and confirm that you will come pick her up on Friday at 8. Do not keep your lady waiting. This will cause unnecessary fretting and stress. A phone call is really easy to make and it’s good manners.
Punctuality is important. A good date and a gentleman does not keep his date waiting. It’s simply bad form to arrive late. Again, you’ll cause your date unneeded stress. And you really don’t want to start off on the wrong foot. If you do have cause to be more than ten minutes late, call your date and let her know, as soon as you can. She’ll appreciate it.
Show her you like her. Signal your attraction immediately, don’t keep it to yourself. Every girl likes to be flattered. Don’t be too profuse. Laying it on too thick will only cause irritation. But do toss out a ‘you look good’ or ‘nice shoes’. It’s an easy point to score.
When it comes to paying the check don’t try to be egalitarian. A woman likes being treated. Besides that, she has already spent a mini-fortune in her pre-date preparations (the hair, the shoes, the waxing, etc).
Now if your date doesn’t go as expected, be gracious and courteous. Don’t offer false hopes of phone calls that will never be made. Tell your date thanks for coming and wish her a goodnight. It’s not that hard.
If the date goes well, make sure your date knows you had a good time and set up another date before the night is over. Walk her to her door. Be a gentleman, but take things to the next level if she’s willing.
Jayde Johanssen understands the turmoil that can occur with men dating. This is why she offers online dating advice for men, to help encourage more harmonious dating experiences
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